life's too short...

Never has my sister's story inspired me more than it has these past few days. Since graduating with her Master's in May, she has moved to France, moved back to the U.S., moved to France again all because her fiance lives there. My sister is probably one of the most driven people I know- but never did I imagine that one day the passion she has for living life to the fullest would lead her to a life in France. The journey certainly has tested my sister and Fabien's desire to be together- through Visa applications, not speaking the language, not being able to work, moving in with his parents, and patiently waiting for a light at the end of the tunnel, my sister and Fabien have remained loyal to each other and loyal to their goal to be together forever. Sigh. How romantic. But the story gets worse before it gets better...

Yesterday I found out that Fabien was in a car accident that totaled their car. Thankfully my sister was not in the passenger seat (the other vehicle hit him on the right side) where she was supposed to be that day because they had gone to a wedding. Because my sister was uncomfortable and not feeling herself, Fabien took her home early and went back- his second trip was the trip that could have ended a lot worse. He was not hurt. Talk about believing in fate... It is amazing to me that with so many bad omens they still remain as strong and dedicated to one another as they do. The reality that my sister and I are an ocean apart became much clearer yesterday when I found out this had happened...questions that are too frightening to know the answer to come to my mind, but yet I am still 'okay' knowing she's in good hands with him. They have a love story like no other and I'm glad I've been along for the ride. As I plan their wedding for next summer I think about the uniqueness of their relationship and realize the happiness my sister experiences even in times like these.

So, just remember...life's too short to be anything but happy.